Interview With Your Catness
by Cary
How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM?
I really can’t remember a time when I wasn’t interested. I lost my virginity in high school to a boy that was just a friends with benefits sort of thing no special romantic moments, we both knew we weren’t “making love”; we were having fun and experimenting. He was great at introducing and encouraging my fetishes. We certainly played with aspects of BDSM but, we were young and we lived in the Midwest so we didn’t know that was the name for how we played. We were both on the wrestling team and I remember loving it when he would wrestle me down and pin me. We often had sex after wrestling practice. It has all just snow balled from there. Every sexual relationship and a few non-sexual relationships since have had some fetish play or BDSM qualities to it or at least from my end it has.
Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what
are you into?
I think the first question outed me as enjoying fetishism/BDSM in my personal life. I am into a lot of different things. I believe that there are things that you will get into with certain partners that is so fun and a real turn on that won’t be with other partners. I am a switch but for the most part I am submissive with men and dominate with woman. Mostly I am into breath play, O-ring gags, shiny shiny latex, edge play, corsets and body bondage, tasks and assignments, spanking, orgasm control and I like big butts and I cannot lie. There are so many things that I like depending on the day that it would be hard to list them all.
Are there any fetishes that you don't find appealing?
Scat play, I don’t like a lot of real pain
I will piss on someone but, I don’t like to be pissed on
No animals but will pretend to be one :)
I get a little weirded out by armpit sex but maybe I have been doing it wrong?
What excites you about fetish modeling?
I like feeling pretty and to be honest let’s face it my body type wouldn’t make it as any other kind of model. I also like the “edginess” of it, there are very few times you can be so sexual in a picture and not be completely naked. I like that my body type is sought after in fetish modeling as my body type alone represents a fetish. I like that my curves are accepted, nay encouraged. It is hard for a girl that consistently has body issues to ever feel pretty and for brief moments in front of the camera, I am one of the pretty girls.
I also like working with good photographers that will mentally play with you while they take pictures I find that getting a little chat going will often help me feel sexier and I feel really great for days after a really good photo shoot with a very confident and experienced photographer.
What are your favorite types of outfits to model in?
Anything from Penny at LustDesigns.com or anything by Autumn from DarkGarden.com I love corsets and latex! I love the yummy feelings they give me! I like feeling my liver on the wrong side.
What are your least favorites?
I really don’t have the confidence to do basic lingerie or nude modeling so I guess for right now those shoots are my least favorite. I am trying to find the confidence to do them :)
Do you think pinup and fetish are becoming part of the mainstream culture?
I think they are becoming mainstream in Europe and parts of the United States but, I think the Midwest and south still view fetishism as stuff that freaks do or wild fantasies that should never be told to anyone. As for pin-up I think the whole world is loving the throw back to simpler times that pin-up modeling is representing.
I remember reading an article in Skin II quite some time ago that asked if Fetish was the new porn and although I think the answer is yes I worry that the farther we push the limits the less we will find acts that truly excite us. The farther we push the boundary the less we will be living on the edge, I would hate for there to come a day when “normal” sex becomes boring and not good enough. Part of the turn on and thrill of doing anything with a fetish/BDSM quality is because it is not the norm and if it becomes the norm where do we turn? I think if it becomes too mainstream we will find that we will begin to push the boundaries so far past our edges that nothing will be sacred anymore. Part of the reason this is all so fun is because it is on the edge and there is something to be said for walking that line and not fully stepping over it.
What kind of music do you like?
I like everything, you could put my Itunes on shuffle and you would get county, hard core rap, pop, Russian sailor songs, death metal; really anything might pop up. Right now I am particularly into John Anaya (myspace.com/johnanaya), Ambulance LTD, The Ravonettes, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Camera Obscura, Jesus and the Mary Chains, Kings of Leon and anything by Pink. I do a Song of The Day on my Twitter account (www.twitter.com/catastrophy) if you would like to see more music that inspires me.
What do you like to do for fun?
I love performing, I do that for fun. I also like horseback riding, watching football, playing football, going to the rodeo, reading, having sex, dancing, anything to do with MUSIC, being a princess, finding out what makes people tick, digging my own grave and putting all my eggs in one basket. :)
See more of Your Catness:
www.twitter.com/catastrophy
www.myspace.com/cat_astrophy
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