Interview With Vendela Zane

Vendela Zane Returns!

By Cary

This is your second appearance in Fixe Magazine, what was the reaction the first time?

I love your publication. It is so nice to see yet another first class production that truly shows the lovely sides of our industry.

You run a BDSM Bed and Breakfast, can you tell us a bit about your Dinner And Dungeon Package?

Dinner in Dungeon has been so much fun to do! Basically, there are lots of options for guests, but in a nutshell guests of any gender type or dynamic can come and enjoy a gourmet meal either off the House Menu or personally created by Me. The backdrop is of course, the House Dungeon. Dinner is served there by either Myself and/or My personal slave. Each meal is completely prepared by Me, including unique seasonal gourmet items. Many couples come to celebrate a birthday, anniversary, or a scene ceremony. Some even like to re-create their past wedding menus or favorite dishes. Being creative is the key!

Have you come up with any new menu items for that?

A dish I am extremely proud of is, My Lasagne De Marquis De Sade. I love spicy food, and this is My Italian twist on that. My cooking stems from Southern comfort/soul foods, tossed with Italian, but with an upscale touch. Many of My Menu items and foods can be modified for specific dietary needs. I also have My personal wine cage with some of My favorite wine additions for meals. Some of these include fun labels such as 'Angry Bitch' and 'Royal Bitch'.

What kinds of people come stay at your Bed and Breakfast?

It's been interesting meeting different types of people from all walks of life. To My surprise, most of the couples that visit are very vanilla in their everyday lives. I do of course get the formal Mistress/slave couples which I enjoy. All relationship dynamics are welcome. I also love the creativity of many of My guests, from their physical fantasies to their food choices. It's lovely!

And what is the experience like for those who stay there?

I make everyone's experience whether they see Me for a profession session, or be a guest at at My B & B, a true unique experience. I want them to completely escape from the outside world and enter My realm. Everyone needs a 'mind vacation' once in a while!

Have you discovered any new fetishes for yourself lately?

I feel that one never stops growing, especially when learning about their sexual pleasures. In My case of being a Sadomasochist, I have explored extreme heights of pain (both delivering and receiving). Recently, I have been interested in more physical fetishes, such as smells, touch and tastes. The smell of leather I of course love. The feel of silk stockings with garter belts against My legs and thighs, the taste of a fine champagne before I pour it on My feet for a lucky slave to enjoy...heaven!

Do you think fetishism and sex and intrinsically connected, or can they be separate?

The basic meaning of fetishism is to objectify a physical object, thought, or interest to produce sexual gratification or arousal.

Just from My psychology background and My experience, I feel they can be separated. Fetishism is a objectifible sexual interest which can have many levels of 'intoxification'. This means it can be compartmentalized and used when necessary and it doesn't have to produce physical orgasm. Remember, many folks enjoy the sensuality of sexual feelings (kissing, touching, hugging, etc) without engaging in the full act of intercourse. Sex is in the mind, and the body follows. I think the only 'problem' with fetishists/fetishism is that the focus on one thing/act can be so strong it can take over. I find this disappointing because I believe that variety and exploration of many aspects of sexuality are important. I'm a big 'try this, try that' Domina. This also goes with the territory of being a qualified professional Domina; I want you to explore and learn as much as I can in the amount of time we spend together.

What advice would you give to someone who is new to the scene?

Read as much as you can on the subject. Talk to mentors and classic folks in the scene and learn from their experiences. Above all, learn about yourself in the process.

Are there any other creative mediums you work in?

I enjoy writing, painting, photography, and modeling. I am a ball of creativity. It keeps the brain flowing!

Read any good books lately?

The last book I've just completed was 'Glamorama' by Bret Easton Ellis. I love his work and writing style.

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See more of Vendela Zane at:

www.whipgirl.com
www.womenofdiscipline.com
www.myspace.com/wodstudios
www.myspace.com/thewhipgirl