Interview With Mistress Heelena
by Cary
How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM?
I’ve been always intrigued by non mainstream sexual practices. Four years ago, I met a guy, a Jordanian medical doctor, who totally freaked me out when he lay down on the floor in my bedroom and started to bite my feet without notifying me. It all seemed pretty weird then and I never saw him again after that as the situation was really awkward. Back then, I had no idea foot fetish existed. Then, about two and a half years ago, my sister introduced me to a guy who had foot fetish. I was a full time student then and coincidentally, he contacted me the day I left my part time office job. That’s when I conducted my first "professional" session, after my sister, known as Mistress Arella, prepared me for what to expect. We met a lot of foot fetishists after that who were desperately seeking to worship feet, some asking for BDSM activities as well so we continued to expand our repertoire.
And how did you transition from an interest to it being a profession?
It has always been a profession. Only then I realized how much fun (or not!) it can actually be!
What can someone seeing you as a Pro Domme for the first time expect?
A down-to - earth, understanding and approachable dominatrix/foot fetish Mistress who does not take herself too seriously. I offer pure FF sessions as (www.miss-toetease.co.uk) as well as domination (or a mixture) as (www.domina-heelena.com) so depending on the type of session really! I can act a role but due to high demand for „natural assertive behavior“, I can actually be myself - which is extremely satisfying living in a society that expects you to follow a certain codex of behavior.
What kinds of people book sessions with you?
All kinds. I have seen clients as young as 18 and as old as 75, ranging from students to businessmen to pensioners. White, black, Asian, mixed, Arabic, oriental… you name it! Mainly Foot fetishists though, most of them Asian!
What are your specialties?
Definitely foot worship and foot domination, no doubt about that! Arousal is inevitable if performed with passion and if the chemistry is there.
What kinds of equipment do you use?
I like using my feet, heels, hands, nails, body, voice. I don’t have a dungeon as I specialize in domestic domination, but I use all sorts of CP equipment, feathers, strap on, toys… when I’m in a fully equipped dungeon I take advantage of some of the less unusual props as well as dungeon furniture. I still find dungeons intriguing.
Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what are you into?
I enjoy having my feet pampered, massaged and caressed and would like to introduce certain fetish elements in my personal life, too – so far not with much success! I am also very much intrigued by role play scenarios – after all, it’s all in the mind! I like guys in suits or uniforms, although I guess that is fairly common and doubt this preference can be classified as fetish as such.
I believe the idea of a “slave” providing endless pleasure would appeal to a lot of women, but they may not be aware of the empowerment it can provide (alongside the pleasure) while sitting on a slave’s face! I don’t obviously practice "queening" with clients despite the ocassional temptation, but it is something I definitely find greatly satisfying in my personal life.
What advice would you have for someone just starting out in the fetish scene?
I can only give advice to pro-dommes:
Brace yourself for time wasters!
You will need a lot of patience and courage, and most importantly, an open mind. Do not expect quick and easy money as some people wrongly suggest -definitely not straight from the beginning. If you consider the whole picture and not just the sessions, every single penny is hard earned. It requires general admin tasks, endless marketing, market research, customer service – just like in an office, except I can be rude to clients if I don’t like their attitude!
Do you think fetish is becoming part of the mainstream culture?
That would probably require some research! Definitely so when it comes to clothes and shoes – you can see fetish elements incorporated in fashion. It is difficult to estimate how many people practice fetish in the bedroom, however, domination seems to be popular with married guys who want to have some fun without being unfaithful. Also, many guys fantasize about fetish activities as they have stumbled across this material on the internet and are eager to try it.
What kind of music do you like?
World music, zen, traditional arabic, indian. Recently, I’ve discovered the amazing French singer, Zazie. Can’t get enough of her.
What do you like to do for fun?
At the beginning, I was under the false impression that I would spend 1-2 hours sessioning so I can have fun the rest of the day. Soon I realized that this is business like any other requiring 7 days work input. So unfortunately, I don’t have much time for fun, but I always enjoy traveling, reading, keeping fit, watching independent movies and documentaries – not sure whether these activities are fun enough!?
See more of Mistress Heelena at:
www.miss-toetease.co.uk
www.domina-heelena.com
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