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Interview With Mistress Bionca by Cary Pro Domme Mistress Bionca shares her expertise in this fascinating and informative interview. How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM? I have always been a strong Dominant Woman with a don't f*ck with Me attitude. About 10 years ago I went to an event in which there was a Pro Domme doing a performance. I spoke with Her for a while and became very interested in the Profession. She told Me I had the right attitude, asked fantastic questions, had a great look and would probably do very well as a Domme. And how did you transition from an interest to it being a profession? After the conversation with Mistress Morgana, I went on a quest to learn as much as possible. Proper technique, etiquette and so on. I eventually came in contact with a Woman that worked at a House of Domination here in Phoenix, The Den of Indomitus (formerly The Den of Iniquity). She had the same thoughts about Me as Morgana, told Me I should contact Her boss, Head Mistress Porsche Lynn. I did so and the rest is history.
What can someone seeing you as a Pro Domme for the first time expect? As a Professional Domme, when someone requests a session with Me I ask numerous questions so I am able to design a session to suit their needs wants and desires. I want to know what their fetishes, fantasies, interests are, how far they would like to explore and if they have any previous experiences or if they have seen a Pro Domme before. I find out their limits and how far they want to push them. I also take the time to find out if they have any medical issues I need to be aware of so I can adjust accordingly. Before the session begins, a short consultation is given to go over any final details, concerns, questions or other thoughts as well as reminding them of their code words should the session become to intense.
What kinds of people book sessions with you?
A variety of people from all different kinds of backgrounds, race, religion, both men and women. However, the main "type" is white males in their mid 30's to late 50's. Those that have professions where they are the one in control, making all the decisions.
What are your specialties? I specialize in all aspects of Domination, Bondage, Discipline, Tease and Denial, Branding, Piercing, Scarification, Corporal Punishment, Sensory Deprivation, CBT, Fetish Fantasies ect. I have made a reputation for Myself as being rather Sadistic and have been referred to as "The Queen of Bondage".
What kinds of equipment do you use? I have a great variety of tools of My trade. In My arsenal I have 2 8 foot24 plait Bull Whips, several floggers made from various hides, leather and silicone crops, a Medusa, loads of rope ranging from 5 to 100 feet in length as well as thin rope for CBT, wooden paddles both thick and thin, a rubber studded paddle I refer to as "The New Yorker", gags, blindfold, handcuffs, leather cuffs, weights, piercing needles, clips, clamps, clothespins, leashes. collars, feathers and SO much more!
Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what are you into? There are a few things I do bring over such as bondage (it is one of My favorite things), tease and denial, the Wartenberg Wheel and sometimes CBT depending who I'm with.
What advice would you have for someone just staring out in the fetish scene? First and foremost, with everything they do, keep it safe, sane and consensual. Don't be afraid to explore and keep an open mind as there are many wonderful aspects to BDSM. One never knows if they will truly enjoy something until they try it. Don't be intimidated by the sights and sounds. Do have fun. Do find the right partner for play. Beware of the "Strippers with Whips" as they can cause permanent physical damage and sway you from something you may truly enjoy! If they choose to be a Dominant, learn proper technique BEFORE wielding any implement, keep the submissive's needs and desires in mind while keeping them in line, be attentive and pay attention to their body language. Learn as much as possible about the lifestyle/scene as well as the tools of the trade. Have someone who knows what they are doing strike you with various tools so you know what it feels like. Find someone to take you under their wing and teach you if possible. Should they decide to be a submissive, don't be afraid to explore all the available options. Be careful when playing with someone new, just because they say they are a Dominant, does not mean they are. If the "Domme" does not give you code words or provide any form of consultation in the initial conversation, does not want to answer your questions or take the time to listen to you.....run away, fast! Just as with the other side, learn as much about the lifestyle/scene as possible.
Do you think fetish is becoming part of the mainstream culture? More yes than no. Yes because so many people are turning to it for "entertainment", it seems to be the new in thing to do. There has been a rather large outbreak of posers and people attempting to use it as a status symbol. On the other hand, many of those same people wish to keep it in the closet, so to say, in fear of what their friends and family might say. As popular as it has become, there are still some people that look upon it the same as they did teen pregnancy in the 50's. I think in a few years it will be more widely accepted.
What kind of music do you like? I love music and use it in My sessions. I have a wide range of musical tastes.....Rock, Heavy Metal, Rhythm and Blues, House, Techno, Trance, Progressive and Industrial. About the only type of music I can't handle is rap and country.
What do you like to do for fun? Where to begin?! Dancing, clubbing with My partners in crime, watching a horror movie, hiking and camping. Absolutely adore fishing, very peaceful past time. Bull Whip and target practice is both enjoyable as well as stress relieving. I also enjoy spending time in the kitchen creating new dishes for My rather large Italian family. I love to feed people, and with a brother and several nephews that love to eat, it works out quite well. I thoroughly enjoy going out in the middle of the desert with some quads and dirt bikes not to mention 4 wheel driving.
I would like to use this opportunity to say this...... Pro Dommes are by no means escorts and escorts are certainly NOT Pro Dommes. A true Pro Domme does not provide any form of sexual contact in Her sessions. Conducting a session topless or even nude if the Domme is comfortable doing so is one thing, but sex be it vaginal or oral is unacceptable. It is then that She goes from being a strong Dominant to becoming nothing more than a hooker. Be weary of those that offer such services. This also comes to mind.....when contacting a Pro Domme for a session, do not try to talk Her tribute down to barely nothing, as this is how She makes Her living. Would you attempt to talk down the mechanic, plumber or contractor, no, so do not do this to Us. It goes like this, "If you cannot afford a luxury, you save for it and then when you have saved, you go get it. I am a luxury, that if you want My time, it is not free. If your wife or girlfriend will not Dominate you, and you need that, you go to a Professional. A Professional anything WILL COST YOU. See more of Mistress Bionca at: www.myspace.com/mistressbionca http://www.modelmayhem.com/MistressBionca
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