Interview With Mistress Absolute
by Cary
How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM?
I have always been interested in it. I just did not know what it was until I
stumbled across a book by another Mistress and I suddenly thought
"crikey...that's Me"
And how did you transition from an interest to it being a profession?
I ended up working in a fetish environment in a corporate way and learnt a
lot whilst doing so. I was also a House Mistress at several clubs and then
when the job I was in ended I thought I was ready to go pro and see how I
liked it. I never intended to go Pro full time and I have stuck by that. I
think that is why I still, after all these years, enjoy it and My clients
can see that. I launched Club Subversion four and a half years ago
(www.clubsubversion.com) and was worked with Skin Two on the Rubber Ball for
four years too. I also stage manage fetish events around the world as well
as hosting events and doing shows. This year I am working on the second
London Fetish Weekend which is happening in October
(www.londonfetishweekend.com).
What can someone seeing you as a Pro Domme for the first time expect?
A rollercoaster ride! I have been told that people find they can trust Me
very quickly which is so important. I like to have fun in My sessions too.
What kinds of people book sessions with you?
All sorts. That's what makes it fun.....
What are your specialties?
That is difficult to list because I just love to play and have learnt so
many things over the years......My specialty is Domination and play!
What kinds of equipment do you use?
Anything to hand from a spatula to an electric winch...... I have been
fortunate enough to played in many dungeons and so I have a wide experience
of different types of equipment.
Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what
are you into?
Yup...I live and breathe it really. I have slaves who serve Me on a day to
day basis in the UK and abroad.
What advice would you have for someone just staring out in the fetish scene?
Enjoy yourself. Be respectful but not to tied up in the politics. Listen,
watch, ask questions and learn....but most importantly have FUN!!!! Define
your own play rules and don't be pushed into anything by anyone. I have a
DVD out for people just starting out which may people have found very
helpful. www.beginnersguidetobdsm.com
Do you think fetish is becoming part of the mainstream culture?
It already is.
What kind of music do you like?
All sorts from classical to industrial metal.
What do you like to do for fun?
I try and make everything I do fun so I would have to say I live for fun!
See more of Interview With Mistress Absolute at:
www.mistressabsolute.com
www.clubsubversion.com
www.beginnersguidetobdsm.com
www.londonfetishweekend.com
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