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Interview With Lady Zombie by Cary Lady Zombie is a Pro Domme, Fetish Model and Luminary of the New York fetish scene. How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM? I've always had a passion for the darker, underground lifestyles, thus I sort of fell into the decadent and sinfully wonderful world of fetish & BDSM through photography and the vast, surprisingly accessible NYC nightlife. Now, fetish and BDSM play a major part in My everyday life. I host fetish events such as Exotic Nature (and I have previously worked in conjunction with Paradise Lost and Suite Abbyss), I have performed S&M stage shows at many events (some being Bloody Ball, Raw Passions, Suite Abbyss and Exotic Nature), I have many loyal servants, one hell of a fetish toy arsenal at home, and a top notch collection of kinky attire.
And how did you transition from an interest to it being a profession? I had the lovely experience of performing as a submissive for My good friend Mistress Maliice (yes, two i's) in a show We performed together at a Paradise Lost event. As W/we all know, the greatest Domina's must experience the role of submissive first in order to grasp the "subspace" concept first hand. I dove head first into the fetish scene afterwards, and steadily developed My skill set and a clientèle. Then, of course, participating in alternative and fetish photography expanded My network into various other areas of the lifestyle.
What can someone seeing you as a Pro Domme for the first time expect? It depends very much on the individual that requests to session with Me. I like to push limits, always respectful enough to keep set boundaries in mind, but just enough to expand out of personal fetish into a steady training regimen. Even someone who is simply looking for a bondage scene must be taught many things. Above all, a session with Me is a thrilling opportunity to serve and worship a Goddess, to please Her, to learn from Her and to accept due punishment from Her with grace and respect. What kinds of people book sessions with you? All kinds of people book sessions with Me: old, young, all races, shapes and size. I tend to get many clients looking for Sissy training, and I think that may have to do with the fact that I am certainly all woman; voluptuous, firm, intelligent, classy and domineering. Who better to learn femininity from than a woman such as Me? Pain sluts also have a certain fondness for Me, since I am known to be rather brutal. I also have many loyal foot servants, and that is due to the fact that I am Webmistress of and featured on a foot fetish website that caters to those who like to smell the bare and socked feet of beautiful Women.
What are your specialties? Corporal Punishment, Sissy Training, Foot Slave Training, Bondage, Roleplay and also Kinky Instructional Services for Couples.
What kinds of equipment do you use? Whatever is necessary... attire that attributes to the roleplay scene, dungeon equipment that adds to the ambiance and/or torture involved (My favorites being the St. Andrew's Cross and assorted suspension rigs), and (of course) toys/props: floggers, gags, collars, masks, leashes, paddles, canes, wax, feather ticklers, crops, whips, cuffs, ropes, sleeves and many more. I have an authentic chainmail mace at home that I am tentative to use, but I am hoping to find a brave and worthy someone up to the challenge one day.
Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what are you into? I live this life 24/7, and although My lover Ali and I prefer to keep it animalistic in the bedroom, We get very kinky sometimes as well. When it comes to Our relationship, the switch in Me rises to the surface, and I love nothing more than to be tightly bound and teased until I am writhing in ecstasy and begging for satisfaction! I would never participate in a submissive role for a client... ever.
What advice would you have for someone just staring out in the fetish scene? Be open minded and willing to try (almost) anything once. Be cautious with Y/your body and mind. Always use safewords. Always play with S/someone Y/you trust. Safe, Sane & Consensual is the way... don't tread off that path!
Do you think fetish is becoming part of the mainstream culture? Absolutely! It's everywhere Y/you look: modern fashion, music, sex shops, etc. There will always be those that look down their noses at kink, fetish and BDSM in general. Just ignore them and pave the way with the rest of U/us to a more open and acceptable society! Yes, I am a sinner... and I fucking love every second of it.
What kind of music do you like? I am extremely eclectic and I adore almost any genre of music Y/you can imagine, although My favorite type of music is rock (metal, classic, death, black, psychedelic, shock, etc.). I am the lead singer and lyricist of a NYC band called DEVIANT TRUST, and We can be classified into several genres: rock, dark wave, electronic and trip hop. The best kind of music is that which can move Y/your body, mind and soul!
What do you like to do for fun? I love to attend concerts, play at goth and/ or fetish nightclubs, work at the Dungeon, see friends at the bar, eat at fancy restaurants, make music, spend time with Ali creating new memories, play video games, go to amusement parks and so much more. I am always having fun. Anything in My life that causes distress of any kind is immediately cut out. Life is way to short to focus on pettiness and misery. See more of Lady Zombie at: http://www.modelmayhem.com/ladyzombie | See more of Lady Zombie at: http://www.modelmayhem.com/ladyzombie Photos by: S+S Photography, Michael Menard Photography, Imagine Photography, Glamour Images Studio and Adrian Buckmaster Photography ![]() |