Interview With Goddess Delilah

by Cary

Beautiful, Smart, Pro Domme, Goddess Delilah is all these things.

How did you become interested in fetish/BDSM?

I can go back to My childhood and remember times that I would fantasize about putting this boy I had a crush on in his locker and duct tape his mouth while taunting and teasing him outside of the door. Once, when we were 17 we went into the sauna at the local YMCA and I made him clean the sweat off of my legs and feet. We actually didn't have sex at the time, I made him just clean the sweat off of me. As I came into womanhood, I realized that the most fun I had in relationships was when I was training the men I was with. Whether it was sex games (like leaving a lover tied up to a kitchen chair and periodically using his erection for My pleasure and chastising him when he wasn't "ready" for Me), or general Goddess worship and having My personal lovers do My bidding 24 hours a day. Then two years ago, a friend turned Me on to foot worship parties and then I got involved in the dungeon side of it as a Domme and turned "Pro"...

And how did you transition from an interest to it being a profession?

See the end of the last question. I left My full time job as a Director of Operations and Finance Operations Director at a consulting firm downtown...after breaking down the President in the first true D/s relationship. He was just too weak to let the relationship end and remain professional at work. So, I left and shortly thereafter went Pro full time. Its been the best time of My life.

Do you enjoy fetishism/BDSM play in your personal life, and if so what are you into?

I enjoy all aspects of FemDom. I love that there is structure without barriers. There are rules and they all circle around Me. Seriously, I love the joy that My personal submissive gets when he/she pleases Me. I really do. I understand the level of satisfaction they get from making Me happy in or out of the bedroom.

Are there any fetishes that you don't find appealing?

I am really NOT into brown, ruby, roman showers. Just a turn off. Other than that, I am a bonafide fetishist and enjoy seeing someone get lost in headspace.

You also perform at many fetish events, how did you get started with that?

I perform in the sense that I show up and will sometimes educate (if you will) those around Me or play with those begging for the right kind of attention I was recently at a swinger party and bored out of My mind because the only people having sex (thank God) were pretty much paid to be there and do that. This fabulous adorable submissive waitress was there so I took her into the "bdsm" room and we had a beautiful flogging scene and she was so much fun!

And what is the experience of that kind of performance like?

The best part of the aforementioned scene was seeing an pretty vanilla audience entranced. I know what a snake charmer feels like. There was a quiet awe that is often reserved for a holy sacred moment...I felt like they were one with Me and that only fueled both My submissive and I more. I need that energy around Me when I am in an active scene.

What advice would you give to someone just starting out in the fetish scene?

Go slowly. Listen to others around you and don't come in judging. If you don't keep an open mind, you will never grow. If you are coming in as a Pro Domme, go slowly and vet out each client because time wasters and assholes will make you feel jaded and you will miss beautiful opportunities to create strong bonds with submissives and slaves that are worth the investment.

Do you think fetish is becoming part of the mainstream culture?

I think that if you look at couture and high fashion, more people than not are getting into it with clothing first. There are more at home "sex" toy parties and there are more mediums that alternative ways of loving are being expressed in a healthy manner and not being conveyed as a perversion. Then you get the media blowing incidents like the one at the nutcracker or rapture (keep your heads up Girls), that sensationalize what we do. This is the healthiest perversion out there. Both the "D" and the "s" are having their primal needs met, they are finding a peace that can't otherwise be expressed and accepted. Let it roll...its Our time.

What do you like to do for fun?

I seriously run the gamut with My pastimes. I really love reading, I am a bonafide bibliophile. Traveling is a core part of Me as well, I need to feed My genuine interests in other people, culture, geography, etc. Then, I love cooking and having wine tastings. You name it. As long as it feels good and makes Me "feel" something intense...it's Mine.

See more of Goddess Delilah at:

http://www.myspace.com/goddessdelilahnyc

See more of Goddess Delilah at:

http://www.myspace.com/goddessdelilahnyc

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